We all remember Michael Winner’s advice to ‘calm down’ and it’s definitely sound advice when you’re battling with what could be your own feelings of road rage as a result of others motoring antics.
Sensible advice this week from road safety charity the IAM reminds us how easy it is to get stressed by everyday motoring mistakes others make. Here are the highlights singled out by their Chief Examiner Peter Rodger and whilst I do detect a male flavour in some instances it’s well worth thinking through the psychology of all this in advance.
1. Rather than adopt a superior than thou attitude when other drivers annoy you, remember that they probably realise they have made a mistake and give them the time and space to sort their error out. They probably don’t need you telling them the error of their ways…
2. The horn is there simply to get others’ attention and let them know that you are there. If someone else uses it to express annoyance, don’t join in because it achieves nothing but adds to the stress for others. Just let it pass.
3. If you spot a vehicle coming towards you with its full beam on, do remember that this is probably a case of forgetfulness on the part of the driver. By switching your full beam on (which many motorists do in retaliation) you are simply adding to the risk of that car having an accident.
4. As tempting as it is to close the traffic gap at junctions before letting others in ahead of you, why not set an example by giving way at busy junctions and/or allowing traffic to merge into your lane when necessary – for example, at a motorway junction.
5. If another road user is driving threateningly, try to maintain extra distance between your car and theirs. Try not to react by accelerating, braking or swerving suddenly, as this will reduce your car control, could affect others and will probably wind up the other driver.
6. Planning as far ahead as possible puts you in the best state of mind to predict other people’s actions and mistakes on the road, allowing you to cope with them more easily.
Rodger said: “Road rage never improves these situations, and puts you, your passengers, and other road users around you at risk. The best thing is to stay calm and continue to drive sensibly, not worsen the situation.”
I’d add that on some occasions it’s easier and safer in the long term to say sorry, even when it wasn’t our fault. Let’s face it, most women have learned how to concede with grace when some men can’t concede for loss of face.
To find out more about coping with road rage situations, why not consider attending a dealership evening for ladies that teaches you how to spot and deal with this including, heaven forbid, self defence tactics if things get out of hand.
FOXY